Ask Dr. Rhodes

I’m 31 and I’m lonely. I’ve gone to six weddings in the last six months. Nothing has worked out for me. Should I lower the bar?


Feeling sorry for yourself is not productive. Don’t lower your standards, but prune them if they are unrealistic or arbitrary — he doesn’t have to be six feet tall or make six figures, for example. There are plenty of guys out there, but you need to be smart and focused. You have time — be positive!

—Sonya Rhodes, Ph.D.

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